In JOYclub, many communities come together, each bringing their own language and abbreviations, just like a vocabulary has developed on the site itself.
On this page you will find an overview of terms and abbreviations that you may encounter. If you have questions about them, the forum is a good place to ask, but this page is already a good place to start learning the JOYclub language.
JOYclub forum and groups:
| CM |
Clubmail |
| GL | Group leader |
| IP | Initial Post |
| TC |
Topic or thread creator - the member who opened a topic |
| OT | Offtopic, the reference to the topic has been lost |
JOYclub Profiles:
JOYclub allows members to specify different genders and inclinations in their profile, here is an overview of what they mean.
bisexual - this person finds two or more genders attractive
bi-curious - This person sometimes finds two or more genders attractive or can at least imagine it
lesbian - This female member finds women attractive
non-binary - This member does not identify with any of the binary genders of male or female
pansexual - This member finds people attractive regardless of their gender
gay - This male member finds men attractive
trans - This member has a different gender than the one assigned to them at birth
transgender - This member has a different gender than the one assigned to them at birth
transsexual - This member has a different gender than the one assigned to them at birth
(These three words mean the same thing - but individually people prefer different terms)
Transvestite - This member sometimes performs a different gender than the one assigned to them at birth
BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism
Poly(amorous) - This member has relationships with more than one person
Switcher - This member takes on both giving and receiving roles in BSDM
Sadistic - This member likes to inflict pain consensually
Masochistic - This member likes to receive pain consensually
Spanking - Slapping, often on the buttocks, for pleasure
Abbreviations and terms
Here you can find more terms and abbreviations that you may encounter in JOYclub.
69 - mutual, simultaneous oral sex
a2m / anal to mouth - the penis (or something else penetrating) is taken directly from the anus into the mouth
AC/DC - bisexual
a/p, A/p - active
a/P - passive
Ally - someone who, without sharing the marginalized characteristics of a group, advocates for it
aromantic - no romantic attraction
asexual / ace - no sexual attraction
B - Black
BBC - Big Black Cock
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman
B/D, B&D - Bondage & Discipline
BD - Big Dick
Bi - bisexual
CBT - Cock & Balls Torture
cis - a person who corresponds to the sex assigned to him/her at birth
DD - Dildo
DD/lg - Daddy Dom / Little Girl, also generic for other relationships involving ageplay.
dev - devout, submissive
dom - dominant
D/s - Dominance and Submission
Exhib - exhibitionist
F / fem - woman
FA - fat admirer, fat lover
FF - fisting
FI - financial interest
vanilla - a person who is not kinky
FLR - female-led relationship
flag - flagellation
FS - face sitting
GS - group sex
het - heterosexual
HIV+ HIV positive - infected with the HIV virus
inter(sex) - a person who was not born with the clear characteristics of one of the sexes man or woman
interracial - sex between persons of different skin colors
caviar - sexual practices with feces
PP - poppers
queer - A collective term for people who do not conform to the norm in their gender, romantic or sexual attraction, example: lesbians, gays, trans people or asexuals
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
safe - protected sexual intercourse (only with condom)
SM - sadomaso
SS - swallow semen/sperm
SSC - Safe, Sane, Consensual; used in the field of BDSM
TF - titty fuck
TFP - time for print, common agreement for photo shoots; instead of money, the model gets free prints as an expense allowance
TPE - total power exchange - partnership concept in BDSM, enhancement of 24/7 (based on the constant, at least mental, presence of a power differential)
TS - transsexual
TV - transvestite
WS - water sports, urine games, golden shower