In JOYclub, many communities come together, bringing their own language and abbreviations, just as a vocabulary has developed on the site itself.
On this page you will find an overview of terms and abbreviations that you may encounter. If you have questions about them, the forum is also a good place to ask. But with this page you already know what it is all about.
JOYclub forum and groups:
| CM | Clubmail |
| GL | Group management |
| EP | Incoming mail |
| TE | Topic or thread creator:r - the member who opened a topic |
| OT | Offtopic, the reference to the topic has been lost |
JOYclub Profiles:
JOYclub allows members to specify different genders and inclinations in their profile, here is an overview of what they mean.
bisexual - this person finds two or more genders attractive
bi-interested - This person sometimes finds two or more genders attractive or at least can imagine it
lesbian - This female member finds women attractive
non-binary - This member does not identify with any of the binary genders of male or female
pansexual - This member finds people attractive regardless of their gender
gay - This male member finds men attractive
trans - This member has a different gender than was assigned to him/her at birth
transgender - This member has a different gender than was assigned to him/her at birth
transsexual - This member has a different gender than he was assigned at birth
(These three words mean the same thing - but individually people prefer different terms for them)
Transvestite - This member partially performs a different gender than was assigned to him/her at birth
BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism
Poly(amor) - This member has relationships with more than one person
Switcher - This member takes both giving and receiving sides in BSDM.
Sadistic - This member likes to inflict pain consensually
Masochistic - This member likes to consensually receive pain
Spanking -Spanking, often on the buttocks, for pleasure
Abbreviations and terms
Here you can find more terms and abbreviations that you may encounter in JOYclub.
69 - mutual, simultaneous oral sex
a2m anal to mouth - the penis (or something else penetrating) is taken directly from the anus into the mouth
AC/DC - bisexual
a/p, A/p - active
a/P - passive
AO - everything without (rubber)
Ally - someone who, without sharing the marginalized characteristics of a group, advocates for it.
aromantic - no romantic attraction
asexual - no sexual attraction
Ace - asexual
Ace - witha recording
AV - anal intercourse
B, Black - Black
BBB - beard, belly, glasses
BBC - Big Black Cock
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman (Rubensfrau)
B/D, B&D - Bondage & Discipline
BD - Big Dick
trimmed - circumcised
Bi - bisexual
BmB - Please with picture!
brown -white games with feces and sperm
BV - breast intercourse
BW, BW piercing - nipple games, nipple piercing
BW type - Bundeswehr type
CBT - Cock & Balls Torture, penis/testicle torture
cis - a person who corresponds to the sex assigned to him/her at birth
DD -Dildo
DD/lg - Daddy Dom / Little Girl, also generic for other relationships with age difference games
dev - submissive
dom - dominant
D/s - Dominance and Submission
DW - lingerie
DWT - lingerie wearer
Erz. u. Beh. - education and treatment
Exhib - exhibitionist
F fem - woman
FA - fat admire, fat lover
FF - fisting
FI - financial interest
vanilla - a person who is not kinky
FLR - female-led relationship, relationship with a man determined/led by a woman
flag -flagellation, a bit of banging
FS - face sitting
Gender - the (social) sex of a person
GS - group sex
GV - sexual intercourse
het - heterosexual
HIV+ HIV positive - infected with the HIV virus
HV - hand intercourse, masturbation
HÃ - men's excess - often used in the context of events.
Int., Intr. - interest, interested/interested parties
inter(gender) - a person who was not born with the clear characteristics of one of the sexes man or woman
interracial - sex between persons of different skin colors
IS - intimate
J. - years
KF - clothing size
KFI - no financial interests
KG - chastity belt
KV, caviar - sexual practices with feces
lg. - long
NR - non-smoker
NS - golden shower
NT - non-drinker
O - submissive woman
OV - oral sex
OW - bust
PG - poof
POG - popping without rubber
PP - poppers
PT - partner exchange; rarely: Petting
queer - A collective term for people who do not conform to the norm in their gender, romantic or sexual attraction, example: lesbians, gays, trans people or asexuals
RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink, risk aware and consensual kink
RP Return postage - Usually means that the other person pays the travel expenses
shave. - shaved in the intimate area
RRR - in-out-out, fast sex
RS - role play
safe - protected sexual intercourse (only with condom, French without cum, kissing without restrictions)
SM - sadomaso
SS - swallow semen/sperm
SSC - Safe, Sane, Consensual, means safe(-ish), with clear senses and consensual; used in the field of BDSM
svv - self-harming behavior
SW - sandwich
taboo - I do everything
TF - titty fuck
TFP - time for print, common agreement for photo shoots; instead of money, the model gets free prints as an expense allowance
TG - pocket money, possibly also transgender
Toil.Sex - toilet sex, generic term for KV and NS
TPE - total power exchange - partnership concept in BDSM, enhancement of 24/7 (based on the constant, at least mental, presence of a power differential)
TS - transsexual
TT - tits trimming, nipple massage, nipple pinching
TV - transvestite
Unk. - Exp
WS - water sports, urine games, NS
WX - wanking, masturbation - mutual or watching each other
XL, XXL extra large, extra extra large - very large (penis, breasts, belly)
ZA - tongue anal
ZK - French kiss